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Nov 24 2022

Gratitude: Being Complete with the Past

Gratitude Being Complete

Did you know????

“You can’t love your kids and worry about them at the same time…” 

The first time I heard that, I was thinking what you’re probably thinking right now… what do you mean I can’t love and worry about my kids at the same time? Doesn’t worrying about them mean I love them?

Of course you love your kids. Of course you worry about them. But love and worry, draw from two different energies. They are two different vibrations, two different frequencies. It’s like trying to listen to disco on a country radio station. It can’t be done because they’re on two different frequencies.


Gratitude and Worry

Worry is focusing on what you don’t want to have happen. It’s setting a negative intention. 

So, as our kids were growing up, I re-trained myself. Rather than say, “Be careful!” I’d say, “Have fun. Be safe. Call your dad.” In this way, I oriented them to a different focus: one that communicated trust instead of worry.

The same is true of gratitude. You can’t be grateful and worried, or grateful and upset at the same time. They’re different vibrations, different frequencies. The universe knows the difference and doesn’t respond to words alone, it responds to your vibration.

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Written by Tom Garcia · Categorized: purpose · Tagged: gratitude

Nov 03 2022

The Power of Deep Gratitude

Years ago I had an experience in the woods, an encounter with nature. It was late and the fire was burning low. I casually stuck my poker stick into the fire to stir the embers. Without warning the fire erupted and flames whooshed straight at me. In one swift motion I was on my feet moving away from the fire, which was suddenly burning fiercely as though it had a hidden source of oxygen.  

As I paced back and forth, eyeing the fire warily, I heard these words:

“I see you. You walk my land, take my trees, drink my water, breathe my air.
‘Thank You‘ will do.

Sage, sweetgrass, and tobacco, these are my currency–make your offerings. Your prayers, these are my language–speak aloud your prayers.”

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Written by Tom Garcia · Categorized: purpose · Tagged: gratitude, spiritual rituals

Jun 22 2022

Overcome Fear by Forgiving Yourself

overcome fear by forgiving yourself concept fire ceremony during corn moon rising in midnight blue sky August 2020
Letting go of fear at a Fire Ceremony during August full moon in southern Colorado

The dusk deepened and the moon rose higher, arcing across the darkening sky. We sat together staring into the fire, two men, friends, brothers. The wind kicked up and the air suddenly grew cold. I fed more wood to the fire, the expanding firelight illuminating our minds.

“Look at me,” I said gently, tears in my eyes. “What story have you made up about love, about your love? I’m listening–tell me.”

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Written by Tom Garcia · Categorized: overcome fear · Tagged: fire ceremony, forgiveness, gratitude, self love

Apr 03 2022

Significant Life Journey

significant life journey concept man with headlamp looking at the starry night sky

We are on a significant journey in this lifetime. For many of us, it’s a long and arduous return to love, a return to the truth of who we are and our connection to Source. Like the strains of a distant melody, our relationship with the Intelligence that created us is a song we know well but have forgotten the words. The ego always dissolves at its sound.

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Written by Tom Garcia · Categorized: purpose · Tagged: authentic voice, deep listening, forgiveness, gratitude, mission, self love

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