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Aug 30 2022

What is Your Why in Life?

Living Your Purpose

Your Purpose is Your Joy

For years I’ve had the same dresser my grandmother gave to me when I was 6 years old. It never seriously occurred to me to replace it. They don’t make them like they used to.

Above my dresser is a handwritten post-it-note, faded with age.

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Written by Tom Garcia · Categorized: purpose · Tagged: deep listening

Aug 08 2022

Crucible Experience

crucible experience concept Melted in a crucible precious metal gold or silver in the form of a hot heart

Are You Available: Listening for the Call of Your Heart

Our greatest challenges become grist for the mill—the stuff—of our transformation. 

Loss, disappointment, physical struggle—the difficult, traumatic and uncomfortable—these are crucible moments in life that everyone experiences. 

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Written by Tom Garcia · Categorized: purpose · Tagged: authentic voice, deep listening

Jul 27 2022

Morning Rituals for Success

morning rituals for success coffee cup with saying That's All. I love you. sits atop three books

Coffee With “the Boss”: Simple Morning Ritual

Do you have morning rituals for success?

First thing in the morning I don’t bother to check email, read the newspaper or listen to the news. Heaven forbid!

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Written by Tom Garcia · Categorized: purpose · Tagged: morning routines, prayer, spiritual rituals

Jul 16 2022

What Does Sacred Mean?

sacred place Chaco canyon ruins in northern New Mexico
Chaco Canyon in Northern New Mexico

The wind was so fierce that I couldn’t keep a fire and so cold that I couldn’t sit still. It whipped wildly through the canyons and across open fields as if the spirit of the place had broken free.

In the pitch-black night I walked away from my camp along a narrow dirt road. Deliberately veering off the road, I stumbled through a choke of bushes and brambles descending into a dry river bed. I knelt down in the soft, cracked soil, thankful for respite from the incessant wind.

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Written by Tom Garcia · Categorized: sacred · Tagged: fire ceremony, sacred places

Jun 22 2022

Overcome Fear by Forgiving Yourself

overcome fear by forgiving yourself concept fire ceremony during corn moon rising in midnight blue sky August 2020
Letting go of fear at a Fire Ceremony during August full moon in southern Colorado

The dusk deepened and the moon rose higher, arcing across the darkening sky. We sat together staring into the fire, two men, friends, brothers. The wind kicked up and the air suddenly grew cold. I fed more wood to the fire, the expanding firelight illuminating our minds.

“Look at me,” I said gently, tears in my eyes. “What story have you made up about love, about your love? I’m listening–tell me.”

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Written by Tom Garcia · Categorized: overcome fear · Tagged: fire ceremony, forgiveness, gratitude, self love

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